The sport of lacrosse needs a mercy rule. Those are words that, until recently, I would never have imagined saying about the game I love. In fact, I would have raged against it. I would have told a story of the worst defeat I was ever involved in – a 30-2 loss in high school – and how my team … [Read more...]
Jaffe: Winning lacrosse is about moments much more than stars
The current issue of New England Lacrosse Journal is dedicated to coverage of the region’s best players, as we debut our “Best of New England” series. This column is for and about everyone else. It’s not that I don’t love watching great players at their best. It’s just that having a dominant player … [Read more...]
Jaffe: Don’t look now, but civility is making a comeback
In the time of TikTok and Facebook videos showing horrific parent and player behavior involving game officials in all sports, here’s something you’ll be surprised to learn: In the last few years, parents, players, coaches and fans have — in general — gotten better. I know a few of my colleagues in … [Read more...]
Jaffe: Lacrosse can’t be taken away — unless you allow it
I have had lacrosse taken away from me several times in my life. There were seasons — first as a player and later as a ref — when I was shut down by injury and coming back was no certainty. There were times I was coaching when the opportunity dried up. Life has interfered, both with family and work … [Read more...]
Jaffe: Why we should say “bye” to early tournament blowouts
Congratulations, you made the state tournament. Your reward will be one of the worst beatings you suffer in your entire sporting life. For a stunningly large number of athletes around New England, that’s the reality when state tournament time rolls around. First-round blowouts are commonplace in … [Read more...]
Jaffe: Power of the handshake has never been more critical
If I was the king of lacrosse for a day and could change one thing about the game, I’d mandate a pregame handshake. Wish the other team good luck, thank them for coming together so you can have the shared experience in the game we love, then go out and play hard. Yes, cheer the other team — and … [Read more...]












